he slap me in the face this guy has gone from a great guy too a real jerk need someones help what do i do I NEED OUT OF HERE!!<P>I JUST DO NOT GET IT I TRY SO HARD WHERE DO I GO WHAT DO I DO ILL BE UP ALL NITE A HOLE WENT TO BED I LOVE IT WHEN I AM ALONE<P>CAROLS22

Carol, call the police. Is your face red or swollen?<P>Are you afraid of police? Are there any drugs in the house? Where is OW?<P>I'm saying prayers for you.

no police please not that big of a deal !sorry

I am trying to aol you on instant messenger.<BR>It's not working.<P>Okay, so you are safe right now because he went to bed, right?<P>

Are there any drugs or guns in the house?

Okay, he's raped you before, and now he has slapped you. What else has he done?<BR>

Does he work tomorrow? Will you be alone tomorrow when he is working?<BR>

Carol<BR>you need to get out of the house. Go to a shelter. You do not have to live like this.<P>Please, take care of yourself. This abusive relationship will kill you if you do not get out.<P>Can someone come and get you?

slow down !he was right to slap me i was helling at him and he is sleeping sorry <P>i just donot want to leave him???

there no gun and no drugs my H gets mad if things do not go good for him and i should know when to be polite and nice !!.he is my only guy i have ever had and i could never leave him what i need is to know what to do about him at times<P>thanks all<BR>carols22

Carol,<BR> I don't give a d*** WHAT you were doing--Your H had NO BUSINESS slapping you!!!!!<P> I want you to repeat this to yourself.<P> I am a good and decent woman. I do not need a man to survive. I deserve to be treated with respect. I do not have to put up with this crap, and I will be all right on my own. There are people out there who are willing and able to help me.<P> Look, my H slapped me awhile back, after I had slapped him in my frustration during a fight. There was no excuse for either of us resorting to violence. However, I told him to get out, and I changed the locks on the doors. He came back a while later, and we apologized to each other. I did make the point to him that yes, I was wrong to slap him, but that he was physically capable of seriously hurting me.<P>At any rate, I have put up with a lot over the last 29 years, but he was not in the habit of hitting me.<P>Your H is BAD NEWS!!! You have the power to change your life; USE IT!!!!

Are you for real? I have trouble believing this. What country are you from? Nobody deserves that and with all the help available there is no excuse for it. I'm sorry, Its just hard to believe your story.

thank you sweetpee you are nice but<P>we have a nice house my H makes good money i have nothing with out him zero and so i make the move to leave him no family to help me I am out on the street <P>i must learn how not to make him mad and how to get rid of OW <P>THANKS

CUTIE PLEASE READ MY OTHER POST I HAVE HAD POST HERE ALL WEEKEND AND THERE IS A LONG STORY TO MY STORY BEFOR YOU BECOME THE JUDGE<P>THANK YOU<P>