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So I am separated and WW is in full flung love with OM - and I am trying to determine how serious he is about her if he is a player or if he is in love with her too... they have history together before us 13 years ago -they dated for 4 months before he went home and got married to another woman.

he is now in the process of divorce and him and WW reconnected.... So I am wondering if he is buying a pager for her - because I can see her message on her phone... he is pretty serious about her?

he also flew her up this weekend to NY from NC to be on his boat the whole weekend.. PA <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

Just wondering if OM do things like this but still evenutally move on?

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Well. What are you doing about it? Are you just going to sit there like a log? Does OMW know? Is he really getting a divorce? What is your plan?

Sounds like a control freak if he needs to keep tabs on her 24/7 with a beeper.

Him:
He cheats on his wife and involves himself with married women. Your WS is eating up all the ENs he is filling for her. How long is affair? Are there kids?


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I have posted this on another threast called true love down hill from here.....

Its spelled out better there.

i am done with Plan A and going dark <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

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He needs to spend lots of $$ til he's broke.

Btw, expose about the pager to all who know.

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