Hi All,

i am sure you know my story, I have had a friendship with my SIL for 13 years. Over the past few years it has been one that was a mental dependancy. Since Jan my contact with her has been very, very, very limited. I have neglected her children, family etc. Due to the respect of my wifes insecurities. from time to time my wife has thrown digs about her at me.

As you also know my wife has forced me into a legal separation since 6/3/2006. Before that since 2/5/2006 she has been "check out of the relationship.

She says that she never wants to ever let herself forgive or forget what I have done.. (EA relationship) She will not allow herself to get past it.

She has moved out at nights only and weekends only and avoids me like the plaque.

How can I get her to talk and open up?
I have be plan Aing.

I feel that her family is blaming me and fueling her fire and not letting us (a married couple work it out)

HELP