For the past 3 years, my husband has been having an affair with a female he works with. I found out about it 3 years ago. And have been dealing with it for 3 years. I always get the "I won't do this to you again, lets work on this". And I stayed and we "worked on it". Well this past March I just had it. I wasn't sure if he was still seeing her or not, but knew for a fact that the affair had gone on in the past, and I finally asked him to leave. During our separation, he continued seeing her. I even got a call from her last weekend, her calling me and I could hear him in the background. She wanted me to know she was there with him and not me. Very immature and childish. During our separation I met a guy that has treated me wonderfully. We have communication, great time just hanging out, and a lot in common. Now my husband and I are discussing getting back together. Again he says he doesn't want to see this woman anymore, he loves me and our children and wants to put 100% into the marriage and making it work. I was excited at first because I miss him and want to work things out, but at the same time, I've gone through this time and time again. And now I have someone who I would like to see where the relationship could go. I'm sitting here at work today with my head in a haze and can't figure out what to do. My husband and I had a long talk this past weekend and let all truths be told. I still love him, but he's put me through a lot and I'm not sure what to do. I have a therapy appt today thank God because I really need some type of direction. I'm absolutely lost and confused and don't know what to do. I want to do what's right and want to make sure I don't have regrets either way I go. I really could use some prayers as to what I should do in this scrambled situation. I appreciate it.