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I have access to online detailed call records with Cingular. I was in the presence of a incoming call, wife would not answer call, a voice mail was left. The call does not show up on the record. A call to me 30 minutes earlier and 30 minutes after show as well as a call into vm to retrieve message, but not this particular incoming call. Question is: can one block the call in a way that does not show on the detailed listing of incoming and outgoing calls. Thank you for any help.
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Call Cingular and find out!
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No, it's not a block. That call that doesn't register is considered a "missed call" being that it was never picked up. Missed calls do not show up on the cell phone bill even if a voicemail is left. This is how my WH and the OW communicated without me seeing. She would call his cell and he would not pick it up making it a "missed call". He would then call her from a pay phone or someone else's phone. I know...it stinks!
I don't know about Cingular, buy on T-Mobile phones you can call his cell phone and if he doesn't pick up the call you can hit the * button and proceed to listen to his VM. He may have a password protect to listen, but knowing your spouse you may be able to figure it out. Good luck finding the truth.
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it is the same on cingular as to the *, but you will need a password.
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Thanks LH. Cingular could not tell me that, but makes sense. Just thought the situation was strange. I said your phone is ringing, it was in her purse which she was holdng, a little nervously, she looked at the phone, said she did not whom it was and quickly put away, then heard the vm tone chime in. Coincidentally, she was out 4 hours last night.
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want to give us some more details?
How old are you? How long have you been married? Do you have kids?
Do you have any more suspicions?
Post more, maybe we can help you.
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you can block your # from showing up by dialing *67 prior to the #, that way if you are able to get vm messages she won't even know you called at all
sorry you are having to resort to this...there are excellent resources and very wise and supportive members here that can help if you are interested. personally I don't know what I would do without MB input...has kept me sane and made me stronger
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rg73118,
In addition to missed calls, your W could have the OM call her by dialing *67 before his # so the call appears to have come from an unknown caller, then she does the same so the call doesn't appear on the records. If you were to check VM, you wouldn't hear a call back # either. Also, text msgs don't appear in detail on most cell records.
Are you certain something strange is going on? Are you possibly jumping to conclusions? Are there other behaviors that have caused you to question your S's behavior? How's the marriage going otherwise?
Like moveforward said, this site has lots of useful resources and you'll be able to get the support you need.
hang in there!
nordstrom
Each one has his own gift from God...
1 Corinthians 7:7
Me, BS - 34
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Married 6 yrs
Living separately 2 yrs
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Good Thread here....I'll be back with questions.
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