My WxH's uncle is throwing a family reunion next week on the West Coast. I knew about this for awhile but I saw the invite yesterday and it states..."Married Couples only, if single you must come solo." It was his way of saying the OW is not invited, but still wants to see his nephew.

Maybe this is the reason my WxH is marrying the OW and picked my birthday as his wedding day to her. I bet she put pressure on him to get married so she can be apart of this family and their events Plus, get her digs into me by making her wedding date on my 40th birthday---which his family was throwing me a celebration but now its been cancelled because they are flying out to Vegas for their ceremony.

She probably can't stand how his family stood by me and supported me through this whole mess. She will never be loved by his family like I am and they just tolerate her because they still want to have a relationship with their son.

I'm so grateful everyday how his family has loved me. Plus my BIL just moved to town late last year, so I get to see my beautiful 2 1/2 year old niece grow up and she just adores me. My WxH only has seen her once, he is missing out on so much to be with the OW. He left me four days before our niece was born.

I actually feel sorry for him. He left a marriage which he had a wife who loved him dearly and their marriage was built on love and trust, no games had to be played or hearts had to break. Now he is entering a marriage, which is being built on lies and secrets. Where two marriages were distroyed and many hearts had to break. Their marriage is being built on quicksand and once he saids his "I do's" to her, I bet her personally will change and he will see her true evil side. Once she gets that ring on her finger, she got what she wanted and she no longer has to play the good girl for him. He's doomed.