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Can anyone tell me how to get rid of cybergroupies?

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Bwhahahahahaha


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you are funny- you post on a forum and then complain when the most active posters post on your thread.

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Someone, help me!

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everyone else on this forum has said why we are here.

why are you here?

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I would suggest starting a fan club and charging a membership fee. You might make a tidy profit.


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I am here because relationship issues are always entertaining, as well as informative...think info-tainment .

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You are probably right...

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I really doubt anyone is here for entertainment. No one here finds infidelity "entertaining" The fact YOU do speaks VOLUMES about YOU.


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I am here because relationship issues are always entertaining, as well as informative...think info-tainment .

Entertainment? You are entertained by the destruction of people's marriages and families?

You want to learn about relationship issues, hence the "info-tainment"?

Well, I can certainly see why you might feel the need to learn about relationship issues. If you are anything in RL like you are on this board, you must not have many relationships to "entertain" you.

OK, I'm not going to delete that, but it was nasty of me to post that to you. But, think about it, CS. If you can't get along with anyone here, doesn't that say more about you than about the members of this forum?

Let's see...you appeared on Sbmmal's thread, picked up on one line where he admitted that he probably had some control issues that may have been abusive. Maybe...maybe not. Many BS tend to start out blaming themselves for their WS's affairs. Anyway, whether he was abusive or not abusive isn't the point.

The point is that you HAMMERED him mercilessly about what YOU apparently perceived as abusive behavior so horrible that his wife cheated.

Actually, CS, I was wondering WHY you were so uptight and rigid in your views that he was an abuser and IGNORING the abuse his wife is heaping on him...while he is in a precarious location, at that!

CS, I don't really believe you are here for entertainment. Maybe info-tainment, but I believe that you very likely have a reason for that. I think you're looking for some kind of help here, but you seem afraid to open up and actually ASK for help.

Actually, most of us here are actually very nice people. Yes, we come down hard on someone who seems to be deliberately trying to hurt someone, as in the case with Sbmmal.

So, what do you really want to do, CS? Do you just want to browse the board and hope you find a situation similar to the one you're concerned about, or do you want some actual help? If you want PROFESSIONAL help, call the Harleys. If you're in a bad situation and want/need some support, get off your high horse and tell us what you really need.

There is really nothing to lose by being nice here.


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Can anyone tell me how to get rid of cybergroupies?

Yes. Go away.

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Apply blue ointment and wait 20 minutes. Shave. Rinse. Repeat.

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Can anyone tell me how to get rid of cybergroupies?

U got is made sweets. If that's the hardest thing you've got t/d..... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

R U referring to us MBers? Don't recall u r being forced to read or post here....or it is you are just addicted to all this attention?!?!?! We can fix that! Let us help you.

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I was going to post this on the "other" thread but it was locked before I could.

Your presence here, CS, makes me think I might go to a breast cancer support website and tell them what I think, based on empirical evidence and my own half baked opinions on what it must be like to have breast cancer.

I'll also tell them I find their situation very entertaining.

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I'll also tell them I find their situation very entertaining.

Info-taining, Kiwi. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> As long as you were learning something, I'm sure those breastless, scarred women wouldn't mind you being entertained by their plight and their pain. Bring a lawn chair. Don't forget the popcorn.

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I was going to post this on the "other" thread but it was locked before I could.

Sorry Jen. I asked Justuss to close it. I'd had enough of her trolling. Not sure how long this one will last.


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When choosing a username like "CinnamonSugar" one would think myspace would be a more "entertaining" factor. Maybe devote some time to Abercrombie and My Chemical Romance Polls or what not.


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After we're done being infotained by the ripped-up and slowly recovering families harmed infidelity, and the scarred cancer survivors, maybe we can go watch somebody bleed to death. Who's game?


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There's always the Nicholas Berg execution video, among others, where they get their heads sawed off by knife-wielding terrorists. That has the advantage of terror, too, not just blood. If you're going to be entertained, go for the gusto is what I always say.

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