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No, I just think she has better places to work her agenda- she doesn't want to hear- she wants to vent. Reading her more recent posts- she would probably do better to focus on her own recent pain issues (boyfriend) with the persons involved rather than place transference on me.
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HERES PINKY'S ANSWER: "Was it the married man’s first time? Yes. Unfortunately there relationship has been non-sexual for nearly 6 years- his lack of desire not hers and lets just say I know based on certain physical issues that this was the truth."
Wow...so the old "wife didn't want sf" story...hmmm...His lack of desire...aka his being in a marriage for a very long time vs. a fantasy with a younger OW type girl...it's all cut and dried stuff...we hear this all the time.
Lemme tell you something Pinky...a wife does not have to compete with any woman. She should not have to. And if this was important to him, he'd have told her...
pearl of truth to the wistress here: Honey, my xh told the wistress and the other ow, that we didn't have sex. WE had sex all the time! I actually FROM THE STRESS OF THE AFFAIR miscarried sadly. WE were trying for baby numero dos.
Don't believe the affair lies and justifications...
Not even your own. You're here spewing fogtalk. About how the wife didn't meet his sf needs.
There are totally different dynamics of a long term marriage vs. a new romance. Totally different.
I will not debate you. But I find your fog here disturbing. Oh well. You're a wistress!
WE will see if you join my xh's wistress wifey in the statistics.
And again, how does a church do that? What denomination blesses this unholy kind of union?
Does anybody know? I don't know.
Heck I exposed to the OW's church. I called her pastor and talked to him one on one. Sadly, she couldn't find any minister in any church in our area to marry them....after that call... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
me:37 BS; s:7;
xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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I take it back.
I am sorry I wasted a breath or my wisdom upon Pinky.
Moderator, please close this thread.
we are here to help SAVE FAMILIES...NOT ENABLE THOSE WHO ARE WILLING TO TEAR THEM APART.
PLEASE CLOSE THIS THREAD...AND WATCH THE PRESENCE OF THOSE HARMING BS HERE...I am tough...I went thru this a while back...but I am worried for those fighting the good fight right now as I type this.
me:37 BS; s:7;
xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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Hey Pinkie,
See you back here shortly after H has made you the BS and he will.
Your M with or without God's forgiveness will never be legitimate, never...no scripture can make that true unless you are re-writing your own, like your H did his M in order to justify you.
See ya soon "future BS"
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Please show me what I have ever wrote to deserve such a nasty, poisonous response.... Would you treat a repentent WS this way?
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He wouldn't treat a repentant WS that way but he is not addressing one of those here is he?
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW) D-Day August 2005 Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23 Empty Nesters. Fully Recovered.
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nope- are you a repentant ws?
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Are you saying that a repentant WS is to be treated with a basic level of courtesy but a repentent OP is not?
And just who is fully empowered to judge who is truly repentent and who isn't- or does you past pain grant you that authority in your mind and heart?
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another a hole heard from!
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Pinkie you're NOT REPENTANT ...You're still an OW. You're a WISTRESS.
not in the least.
And I find your presence here disturbing ...there is even a poster here tonight who is in dire straits...a very very hurt BS ...hurt by and affair and a toxic one at that...a life is on the line...A LIFE IS ON THE LINE TONIGHT HERE...and you try to taunt a few BS here.
but I see thru you.
I hope the mods do as well.
PLEASE DO NOT POST OR REPLY TO THIS THREAD ANY MB'ERS HERE AGAIN...DO NOT BAIT THE SHARK...USE SHARK REPELLENT AND IGNORE THIS THREAD...I AM ON PERMANENT IGNORE.
G'BYE PINKIE...I'm sure we'll see you here in a few years/months again should the stats prove correct.
me:37 BS; s:7;
xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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Seems to be a oft used term for you, since it has gotten you into trouble in the past, you might want to find a more tact way of expressing yourself.
Unless of course you enjoy the monitors cleaning up your language and blanking out your posts.
If what I have been offends you so- please put me on you ignore list- as I have now done with you.
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Wow. Nothing from my post was blanked or bleeped. Sorry. It is in full.
And No, haven't gotten in any trouble dearie in past.
LET US CLOSE THIS THREAD NOW. It is not helping anybody. Except the jollies of a Wistress from TOW who is here stirring up trouble.
me:37 BS; s:7;
xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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