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I want to start this post just telling that this is focus to clarify some issues.
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Edited out per thread owner's request.
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You are carrying a huge burden everyday. Telling your story will help to relieve some of your guilt and stress that you feel.
All we ask is that you are 100% honest. We all invest much time in reading and posting in an attempt to help others and to seek help for ourselves. If you are honest, everyone will reach out to you and help you. If they have other intentions, they will have to come through me.
So folks, let's give regreted an opportunity to tell her honest story, reach out to her and help her without being judgmental or cynical.
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Thank you very much TodAc, I repeat you I havent lied anyone here..
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Ok....well without knowing your story, here goes....the basic suggestions are the same..... read Surviving an Affair and His Needs/Her Needs. Get with a good MC familar with MB principals.
If your H is being cruel to you..... counter it as best you can with a plan A until you are done making your improvements. Once complete and he is still being cruel and having an A, then go to plan B and protect your financial assets, those of your family and separate yourself from his cruel treatment.
If you are the WS, then work on repairing your and ask for your H's forgiveness.
We can be flexible with support here, the more we know the better we can zoom in on suggestions but for now, this is the basics.
take care,
L.
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There are days that I feel optimistic and with strong enough to survive all this.. Sometimes I think about myself as a worst women in the planet, a bad bad woman..
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Regretted.
Stop putting you down and start forgiving yourself is a very good start.
You are not a bad woman, read needtime story, she is in a very bad spot
And she is courageously working on herself.
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regreted - I hope I didn't post anything that would be dangerous for your situation. I looked through your posts, but missed where you requested something be deleted.
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Justuss DID NOT EDIT THAT.
It's quite different when Justuss edits stuff.
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But she edited everything else. I was just saving her time.
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So I was censured right?
Sorry for me that word was not so bad.
I use it as a synonym or garbage, I guess I missundertood main meaning...
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regreted, You are doing just fine posting. Continue on..... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Only the one word in the title was edited which had to be edited in all the poster's replies also. No problem with your thread or responses. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Regreted,
I removed my prior post from this thread. I didn't see anything I posted that would identify you in any particular way. Let me know if you need me to remove anything else.
It is important your get support for yourself though. Seek out professional help in your area.
It is important that you are safe.
The above is a general statement for everyone who is posting in this area.
take care,
L.
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thanks justuss and orchid..
I dont know where to begin this...
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You have an anonymus name. You can post as a 3rd person if it helps. The stuff you will be reporting on is not uncommon or unique. Keep that in mind. For someone to find you c/b more of a relief than you realize. Fear usually holds people back. Shame does the same. Truth and exposure generally brings relief to those seeking peace in their hearts.
take care,
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