Gale

Please don't fall for this....."She promised me this and that..." She's a liar. Repeat a liar..

Here's the truth.

She's moving back to use you, to get you to lower your guard, to get custody of your children so that she can marry OM and have him raise them except for a couple of weekends per month, and use your money that you mail once per month. I don't believe her for one minute. She may even pretend to halt the affair for court purposes (I think this is why she is moving out of OM's house and closer to children by the way).

You said "she wasn't happy..." Of course not, you didn't go along with her little plan to turn you into a check writing, weekend daddy.

Don't believe anything she says, period!!!!!!!!!!!

H&P,

As I ruminated about our conversation, I thought to myself that this very well could be a big manipulation ploy. At the same time, I can't help believe that she is sincere in alot of what she said. Basically, my take on it is that she is still lying to herself. She admits that she is sitting on the fence. I have been making it clear to her that I am not going to continue playing this game, and she isn't sure that she wants me out of her life. She just doesn't want to give up OM. I don't know what she thinks she is getting, but she insists that she needs him in her life right now. I said fine, but if he is in her life, I am out. This must be one of those "rules" that she can't live with.

If she insists on having him in her life, it is easier for me if she stays where she is at. Of course I can't count on her to want to make my life any easier.