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Yep, me too, but for some very weird(I know) reason, it makes my tongue ITCH!!!???!!!??? What in the heck is that about? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> Hey, maybe it means that SwissMan's been talkin' 'bout me! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Mrs. W
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Vo are you calling a zilly furriner ? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Moi ? Be ferry carevul or I vil start telling zilly jokes ! Zere ! You ave been varned ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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Vo are you calling a zilly furriner ? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Moi ? Be ferry carevul or I vil start telling zilly jokes ! Zere ! You ave been varned ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> sigh........... we need to nuke this silly foreigner too! She stays up posting half the night like a Godless heathen! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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No no.. You Americanos get out of your beds HOURS after I do !!
(Though the Aussies still beat me to it..)
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In fact this zilly furriner is going to bed now (10.30 PM here now).
I lost a lot of sleep with the 1-month heat wave here in Belgium.
It's FINALLY cooled down... weeeeeh !!
Have a nice breakfast, Aussies and Kiwis..
Have a nice lunch, West Coast...
Have a nice dinner, East Coast...
And er... brunch for Hawaii!
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Mel... IWRA did say atleast one thing in the Blackopal thread that I have to agree with... when a person first comes here they feel so alone and scared with a group of people that already know one another. This is not the fault of the group that is here... but an issue within the many people who come here. It was my issue. It took me a short while to make my first post. I received a lot of great help, especially since I was a BS... but it is a more difficult task to go from a newbie looking for help... to an accepted "member". My personal feeling is I am somewhere in that awkward stage between the two... does that mean I'm just hitting puberty? Even though it is a group of anonymous members, it can still have the same scary feeling of going to a new high school. I never had much issue in school becoming accepted... but I was never in any one crowd... I was able to go from crowd to crowd and be accepted... but on the fringe. (The jocks, the cool crowd, the band group, the intellectuals, the ones hanging out back smoking... which I never tried but was ok to be with them). I believe this is partially an issue from moving around a lot as a kid and now is an issue with getting to real intimacy. I'm more comfortable on the fringe. This is one thing about myself I am not happy with and am working on changing. Shaden
BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
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2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.
Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.
FAITH REQUIRES ACTION!
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Mrs. W... I saw your question about taking sides and it is a good one. I have some initial thoughts but am thinking it through further before I respond.
Shaden
BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
Married - 16 years
2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.
Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.
FAITH REQUIRES ACTION!
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Cool Shaden...I look forward to reading! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> On the "in crowd" thing...In my life, I have just always operated from the assumption that I would be part of any "in crowd"...An optimistic perspective that I believe has served me well...Perhaps naive or something else, I dunno...<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> Mrs. W
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I received a lot of great help, especially since I was a BS... but it is a more difficult task to go from a newbie looking for help... to an accepted "member".
My personal feeling is I am somewhere in that awkward stage between the two... does that mean I'm just hitting puberty?
Even though it is a group of anonymous members, it can still have the same scary feeling of going to a new high school. I know what you mean very well. I had those same feelings when I came here and I imagine every one does in a new environment, whether it be on the internet, at a new church, at work, etc. I guess that never changes, huh? [eh? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />]
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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