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I heard of this concept but haven't found anything written on it. Could someone please point me to the article or explain it to me?

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Theres a few places I've seen it documented. Here is the one of them. See the portion on the stages of love, in particular, the Attraction stage.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

It involves chemicals released by the brain, hence the WS's seem like addicts when they are in an affair. That also explains why they suffer withdrawals when they are not in contact.

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I've heard that Jennifer Harley wrote something about this. I just want to know if anyone has a link to the article or tell me what book it can be found in.


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i believe that it's in SAA and it's what Jennifer Harley told me.

most affairs only last up to 6 months after seeing the light of day (complete exposeure) but some could last as long as two years

she told me to plan to wait until up tp 2 years after the complete exposure occured


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