I just wanted to say thank you for the imput into the letter that H wrote me. I do see your logic into the whole thing. I wish I could have posted this sooner but don't get much time on the computer as my H does his schoolwork and he really doesn't know that I have been posting.<BR>I think H is in full withdrawal now. He has become very strange and quiet. He seemed very depressed yesterday and this morning. He was fine yesterday afternoon when I took the kids and left to go hiking. He even came up behind me and kissed and hugged me. Gave him a couple of hours of space, visited a friend also. When I got back, there was nothing. Wasn't really there. I don't know if the quiet was good for him or not. Just seems very lonely and pathetic. I'm just going on. Got up early this morning, went for my run, which I do for myself every morning, took my shower, got dressed and headed out the door before he even left for school. I gotta tell you, that it felt good, thinking about myself for a change instead of worrying about how he was feeling. That's not to say that I'm not talking to him. I told him last night that if he needs to talk I would always be there for him. I'm supposed to be his best friend, as he put it. I'm giving him alot of space now as I think there is nothing more that I can do. I don't think there is any way to help him through this period. Any suggestions? I do love him so and I want things to work out but I know there are things that I should and should not do.<BR>Also, thanks to everyone else. I know I don't post a whole lot but being in here and reading all of the different situations and how they are being handled is the best medicine for me. I take it day by day and hope that someday I will be a success story like some others here. It's nice to know that I am not alone and I can come here when I need to feel well, not so lonely as I know alot of us are. You are all so strong for wanting to stay in your marriages and make them what they were intended to be. It keeps me going sometimes you know? When it would be easier for me to just walk away from it. Thanks for everything.