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Can Someone Please Help Peter M? #1720241 07/31/06 01:40 PM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 486 K Katie_Mae OP Member
OP Katie_Mae Member K Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 486	Hi everyone, I have been talking to Peter M and trying to advise him on his wife's EA. I think his W really loves him but is completely clueless about her behavior, and Peter doesn't really want to stir up the pot. His W agreed to leave her job (where the OM works) but she continues to have contact with him via text messaging and the like. If folks wouldn't mind checking out his thread, I would really appreciate it. Thank you and God Bless! Katie Mae Last edited by Katie Mae; 08/01/06 08:27 AM. Me: FWW (34) H: BS (35) Together 12 years, no children (yet) LTA: 3 years D-Day: Sept. 13, 2005 (I confessed) So blessed, thankful and happy for my wonderful H... "God lives in the gathering of saints."

Re: Can Some "New Blood" Please Help Peter M? Katie_Mae #1720242 07/31/06 05:24 PM
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Noname123 Member N Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 154	KM - I'm really not able to say much that is constructive, because I've got a mess myself, but I just wanted to thank you for being such a kind soul to help a total stranger out - Thank you for your time and kindness. - C.

Re: Can Some "New Blood" Please Help Peter M? Noname123 #1720243 07/31/06 07:04 PM
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blindsided06 Member B Joined: May 2006 Posts: 234 South East FL	I am only 4 months into this crazy fog world but I can look and offer my 2 cents. Blind BS (me) 36 WS 36 no kids together 17 yrs not married D day 4/1/06 He was out of the house 5/10-6/5 NC as of 7/2/06 my story

Re: Can Some "New Blood" Please Help Peter M? blindsided06 #1720244 08/01/06 07:46 AM
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OP Katie_Mae Member K Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 486	Thank you all for your help! Callie... I will respond to you on your thread... I'm so sorry things are still so rough. We're all here to help one another... you help me as well... we all learn from one another here. ((Callie)) Me: FWW (34) H: BS (35) Together 12 years, no children (yet) LTA: 3 years D-Day: Sept. 13, 2005 (I confessed) So blessed, thankful and happy for my wonderful H... "God lives in the gathering of saints."

Re: Can Some "New Blood" Please Help Peter M? Katie_Mae #1720245 08/01/06 08:16 AM
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IWRA Member I Joined: Mar 2005 Posts: 196	Hey Katie Mae. I know what you meant by 'new blood', you meant someone besides yourself helping Peter. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" /> However, it kinda sounds like you are requesting us inexperienced people. LOL. You might want to change the thread title to include old blood. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> I think what Peter needs is some good ole experienced MB vets. (He is fortunate to have one of the best, JL, counseling him.) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Re: Can Some "New Blood" Please Help Peter M? IWRA #1720246 08/01/06 08:28 AM
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OP Katie_Mae Member K Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 486	Thanks IWRA... that's what I meant. Fixed it! Me: FWW (34) H: BS (35) Together 12 years, no children (yet) LTA: 3 years D-Day: Sept. 13, 2005 (I confessed) So blessed, thankful and happy for my wonderful H... "God lives in the gathering of saints."

Re: Can Some "New Blood" Please Help Peter M? Katie_Mae #1720247 08/01/06 08:35 AM
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IWRA Member I Joined: Mar 2005 Posts: 196	Wow, that is the fastest anyone has ever done anything I suggested. LOL I am grinning here. You are a COOL and KIND lady and your posts are a very important asset to this MB forum. Keep up the good work. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Re: Can Some "New Blood" Please Help Peter M? IWRA #1720248 08/01/06 09:46 AM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 486 K Katie_Mae OP Member
OP Katie_Mae Member K Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 486	Hopefully I'll come to a point in my recovery when I can comfortably accept your compliment, IWRA. I still feel like I have a lot of work to do... part of my work here is talking to others about what I've done and what I've learned... I'm still battling my inner demons, some days are easier than others, but I'm trying. Thanks again for the support. I'm grinning now, too. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Me: FWW (34) H: BS (35) Together 12 years, no children (yet) LTA: 3 years D-Day: Sept. 13, 2005 (I confessed) So blessed, thankful and happy for my wonderful H... "God lives in the gathering of saints."

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