Sorry here goes a vent!!! Im gettig very frustrated with my husband. He works alot lately and i understand he is tired when he comes home...but he is majorly neglecting me and his kids. I left this morning for work, he had today off and tommorow off,before i left i said what do you have planned? He said he didnt' know, i said why don't you take your daughter(she is 16) out for breakfast..he says "you think so, sounding positive?" I said ya she would like that...she misses you...so kissed him goodbye and i left. I phone later, no one home, so i figure..oh they must of gone out. So i get a call around noon and my daughter is asking where is dad? i was hoping i could get a ride at least to town...he left didnt' say a word to her..and went out with a friend to lunch. she was so choked, he could of at least woken her up and said "do you need a ride to town at all im going in,or maybe hey ask to do something with her!!! so she phoned his friends house and asked if she could get aride tommorow cause she has work, and he has work off...he says,,uh i don't know yet i might have plans. She phoned me in tears...he is so damn selfish. He can seem to make time for his friend but not for us. He came home last night, it was our neighbours bday next door and i said when he got home, come over for dinner, or just at least for a drink, he refused...which he ALWAYS does...we have been invited numerous times and he always declines saying im too tired!! they are tired of asking now and i am tired of always going alone, yesterday i said to him ...u could just come over for a drink and say happy bday..at the very least. I do understand that he is tired but when he chooses to go out with his friend and make time for him instead of me or his daughter it is very irritating!!!!!!!!!