ok I dont even know if I should be posting this here or not, but I dont know what to do...
I believe my best freind is being abused phyiscally & emoionaly , verbally, & every other aspect there is but I am more worried about the physical..
Sunday night she had called my husband & asked him a question.. this was at 1 in the morning.. all the sudden he said he heard her scream & the phone went dead... he grabbed his self defense tool & was walking out the door,
I called her right back & asked whatthe heck was going on, & she said nothing no big deal but was crying very hard & kept asking him to please leave & leave her alone... I told her my husband was on his way over & she said ok
well 2 minutes after I hung up with her she called right back & asked that my husband not come please, then 10 minutes later her boy friend called my husband & said he was sorry, & that he has calmed down, my husband said he still wanted to go over there.. I told him I dont think you should she knows what she got into, & if she wants it to end she will end it its not worth you going to jail over, we come first not her... Had he not called yes I would have let my husband go over there.. Not the point I called her mom to no answer, her mom called back like 2 hours later & I explained to her what was going on.. She then told me about my best friend supposdley falling in the bath tub last wednesday, she said she has a HUGE bruise on her left side of her face, & it & her ear are swallowen.. She also has a knot on her fore head her mother is a bit of an exgerattor(sorry SP???).. Well I went over there on Monday to pick up her son to spend the night at my house, & her mom was right.. I questioned her about it, & she said she fell There is NO way this was from falling... especially in the shower NO WAY at all.. I told her I dont believe her.. & she got mad & said I dont care what you believe.. There is also brusies on her arm & legs, ons on the leg I actually think are from tables etc... On arm I know are fom him grabbing her or hitting her, you can see the finger marks.. what can I do to get her to open up about him doing this to her??? I am scared to death for her, I know it is only getting worse, & all she does is protect him.. He does not work or supprot his kids 1 by her 2 from a previous marriage.. She does all of it.. & does not make much money..
I told her I loved her & we would do what ever we can to get her out of this situatiuon she is In & I meant it.. She told me I was crazy & that she loves himm...
she is my closest in dearest freind & I would do anything in the world for her, I want to help her , but have no clue how.. especially since she wont admit this is going on.. has anyone been thru this & how do I help her, before it is to late & he ends up killing her
