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Over the past few days my WS has been more talkative and showing up at the house more.
She has asked me for help with her car issue, and other things, but the kicker was she made dinner for the family last night and left it on the stove for when we all came home. (remember she left house over a month ago).
Strange???????
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She wants to keep you on the shelf just in case. That would be my guess. I don't know your story, so it's only a guess. Even if I did know your story, it would still be a guess, LOL. But... that's my guess. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> If she wants to come back, she'll tell you. (I guess). -AD
A guy, 50. Divorced in 2005.
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I know she misses home, but she is here while I am at work and her and the children are off for the summer.
does she miss more than home
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Tell me, NGU...have you made more progress with the DJs?
I ask because you are here, asking something only your wife can answer...
"Home" is a total package. Some of it falls under the way things were...
You bought everything your wife said as your own belief. And I thank you for that...because when I told you about her having her own truth, and you having yours (awhile back), and neither of you have The Truth...I was trying to show you that our truths change...and unless we respect each other's truth, right now, then we'll DJ and miss out.
You might miss out on this...can you state how you feel, other than strange? "I appreciated and enjoyed the dinner you made, you asking me for help with your car...I felt included and accepted."
Then you may hear what she feels, thinks and believes...and know if this is strange or not...if it a mood or an ephihany for her...
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LA,
I have made progress on my DJ's,
I respect her truths, and beliefs she has, I know she does not have ant respect for my feelings.
I feel that love and the bond we have for the past 10 yrs is unbreakable and love conquers all, but I am shocked and baffled that my WW has lost her respect for what we have instilled in our relationship and to our children.
Yes, I can admit my EA. I have and will. I have walked away from it and only want a life with my wife not WW,
I sent her a txt message and told her face to face about how awesome the food is was and that i helped her with the car...
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