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I am not your plow
I am not anyone's plow

If you have something legitimate to add to this board ... do it

Do not attempt to cite me like a reference

If you want the respect of others

YOU earn it

I had to earn mine
and mine is not for sale
nor do I lend it out

I am offended by this disingenuous arguement!

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still ~~~> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

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plus

it is very telling when one uses an act that is void of integrity to defend their supposed integrity /purpose

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I know you Pepper. Did I do it????

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Pep:

I can certainly understand if you choose not to...

But will you explain this further...or direct me where I need to go?

Because I care..because I want to learn from this...


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I'm still looking, too, without success so far.

Pep <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />?

Oh dear, and I was almost ready to try standing up again after the other day.........


A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb



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I know you Pepper. Did I do it????

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> BWHAAAAAAAAAAAA

I donno, did you do "it" ???? I certainly hope so

Pep <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <~~~ this cheered me up !

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I donno, did you do "it" ???? I certainly hope so

Great---I cheered you up, at my expense... Still no "it". But thanks for believin', lady...

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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MIMI

this is in reference to a locked thread ... otherwise I would have responded there ... additionally, because it's from a locked thread, I decided NOT to quote the person ....

however, I NEVER want her to use me to create legitimacy for her ideas.... I used her as a reference to give my idea legitimacy

that was wrong of me

she called me on it, I apologized ... it's DONE



NEAK ~>>> stand up

BWHAAAAAAAAAA

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I did "IT" this weekend..but not to or with you....

Do I get a laugh?

I need ATTENTION....
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I did "IT" this weekend..but not to or with you....

Do I get a laugh?

I need ATTENTION....
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

HaHa <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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is this what you are referring to pep?

reference to Pep's support

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HaHa

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THANKS!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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Pep,

That made me angry too.

Truth be told, we all see through it.

She didn't come here looking for help anyway, as far as I can tell. She just wants to argue why her M is "legitimate." She probably figured that saying you supported her would give her credibility in her position.

I wish people would stop posting to her. I understand and respect the pain behind the posts, but it's just making good folks upset and want to leave the board. And others aren't getting the help they need.

This morning, WilsonK14 posted saying he exposed to OMW. OM was furious and said he never wanted to speak to Wilson's W again. Wilson's W now wants to work things out with him. He's now asking what his next steps should be.

This is great news, but until I came back from town no one had responded to him! There has been a lot of movement on the affair marriages threads, however (and several new ones just created!)

This is very upsetting to me. I understand people have strong opinions and are hurt by posters like the one you are mentioning, but it bothers me when newly betrayed spouses (or truly troubled WSs) are not getting the help they need.

It's like the TOW board won or something.

TOW: 1
MB: 0

Anyway, just wanted to respond to your thread and say I also was upset by that comment. I also wanted to say how sad I felt that newly betrayed BS aren't getting the help they need right now because of posters like the one you mentioned. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />


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Me: FWW (34)
H: BS (35)
Together 12 years, no children (yet)
LTA: 3 years
D-Day: Sept. 13, 2005 (I confessed)

So blessed, thankful and happy for my wonderful H...

"God lives in the gathering of saints."
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Still no "it". But thanks for believin', lady...

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ack! Ya know, the only other really long-running question in my mind from this board was "Whatever happened to D99 and his wife?"

OK; there are certainly others, but that was the first one to come to mind... and the first one to maybe give you a wry smile, K... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> Sorry to hear things haven't happened, even after all this time... you're still a prince among men.


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Well, at least we have the same "long-running" questions! With some of this board turmoil that's been going around, I think back to the good old days of D99, glenn, and some of the others who were "difficult" cases.

The forum membership was a heck of a lot smaller then!

Good seeing you, Who_Dat. Shed no tears for me---things are pretty darn good, overall! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

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I did "IT" this weekend..but not to or with you....

Do I get a laugh?

I need ATTENTION....
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DOH!

Cowboy hat or no?

Inquiring minds wanna know.

I love you MIMI!


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Do you remember NoMas, K?

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Hi Jo,

I do indeed.


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