I haven't been able to update my original thread and I have no idea how to add a link to the bottom so I started over.

There has been NC for 39 days straight.

We seem to have recaptured something that has been missing for years now that I take an honest look back.

Rinderella had on her thread that I think LA had menioned that you the BS shouldn't press RT until there has been 3 months of NC.

Does everyone agree with that?

I have done the one liner drive bys and that has worked well.

I have "trapped him" in the car for hours a a time looking at house paint colors.

Worked great.

But I can't get him to WANT to open up about what has happened in the last 4 months.

Will he ever open up to me or will I have to live with this black hole in our relationship indefinately?

I feel good about the work I have done for me and for us but I miss that he feels he can't open up yet???


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