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I do live in a no-fault state - though, fault can be recognized if "you have enough evidence".
I think WH is close to filing - he is seeing his attorney more and now is going to IC (per his attorneys suggestion)..So I think he's starting to do the "leg work" and he's asked me what I want - financially..
Anyway - many of you know my story and that WH is actively seeing one of our employees..I would like to use indignites in court as believe me - I have suffered 24/7..I have no choice but to come to work since we both own the business. I cannot confront this woman in fear of legal action, I just have to sit and listen to the gossip of "their affair".
Just wondering what I have to prove to be able to use "indignities". There has been gossip about him and another employee as well..I lived thru that one too..
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I'm in a no fault state as well. However, I've been told that judges in my district tend to lean favorably toward the BS.
My lawyer advised me to let WH file first since fees are more for whoever initially files in my area. I then counterfiled on basis of "adultry and insupportability". My documentation is fairly simple since DD found 2 letters WH wrote and had the intention of mailing to OW. There is enough info in letters to document affair and that he didn't like having to limit his spending. I also have emails to other women and phone records.
I haven't been to court yet, but I suspect that written documentation or pictures are much better than word of mouth.
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