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What are the odds? Please reply!!!
#17284 10/05/99 12:06 AM
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My wife told me 1 year ago that she did not love me.<BR>I have put great pressure on her to come around.<BR>She filed for divorce under the stress.<BR>We are seperated but the divorce is halted.<BR>She has seen another man since the seperation, but says it is over.<BR>She is mad at me for not giving her space. She says that is all she has asked all along.<P>Is there hope?
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#17285 10/05/99 12:17 AM
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there is alawya hope if you give her what you want. may i suggest www.divorcebusting.com or get the book divorcebusting. DO NOT PUSH, PLEAD, CRY, WHINE, BEG, or anything else. work on you, no matter what the outcome, you have become a better person. why is it that she dosen't love you? look at what she has said and see if you aren't willing. also, maybe if you posted it elsewhere in theis forum, you may get more answers. try the DB site, lotsa company over there.
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#17286 10/04/99 05:18 PM
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I replied on the other board under Emotional or maybe why men leave women.
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Chances are, she was either seeing or wanted to see the "Other Man" when she originally told you she "didn't love you". Now that that relationship is over, if you give her some space to think things out, there is a good chance she will be back. But do you want her back?
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#17288 10/04/99 08:47 PM
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I don't know what the odds are in this case, but perhaps the guilt and hurt are so painful she felt she needed space?<P>Clinging behavior and demands are not attratctive. I think I would really go easy on that, and concentrate on meeting the emotional needs she has and will let you meet and no lovebusters.<P>

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