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one other thought, IWRA...Sarie...SillySillyGirl... On another thread, you found it interesting how I was having a conversation with myself... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Shaden
BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
Married - 16 years
2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.
Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.
FAITH REQUIRES ACTION!
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Folks...
It's a beautiful sunny Sunday morning. I'm going to go outside and work on my Model A!
Maybe drive it again! (I drove it yes2rday!).
Then I'm going 2 work on the bathroom upstairs, which I'm delighted 2 say is almost FINISHED - all the requisite plumbing fix2res WORK (and look prettty cool, 2).
And THAT's the TRUTH!!!
-ol' 2long
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Celt too.... Wow.... I went back to look at Celt's posts and the first one I pulled up included these words I wrote back on March 29 On the other hand, I have a sneeking suspicion that 1 or more of you may be other than you say you are. Celt, in particular, strikes me as potentially a full blown WS, a WS that is now divorced or an OP. Come on, a year recovered BS that thinks exposure is a bad thing, continual posts on every exposure thread here debating intricacies which are quite clear and is proud of the fact he "saved" his wife's reputation by not exposing her affair. I'm a BS that didn't expose and "saved" my wifes reputation but WE (the Mrs. and I) see absolutely clearly I should have exposed at least to her parents and the single OM's family. It would likely have cut weeks off her 3 month affair. Accordingly, we now consistently encourage others to do FULL exposure in accordance with MB principles. In my opinion, Celt's posts appear specifically designed to stir the pot, distract us from our intended purpose (of helping real couples afflicted by infidelty), play on newbie BS fears, and pointedly attack Melody Lane as she IS one of the many but perhaps the most outspoken "affair buster" superhero. I don't know if this is a concerted organized attack on MB or a personal vendetta against Melody Lane and/or MB...but I suspect it, nonetheless.
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Mr. Wondering I had NO idea how close to the truth I actually was. Mr. W
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
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"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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. In my opinion, Celt's posts appear specifically designed to stir the pot, distract us from our intended purpose (of helping real couples afflicted by infidelty), play on newbie BS fears, and pointedly attack Melody Lane as she IS one of the many but perhaps the most outspoken "affair buster" superhero. I don't know if this is a concerted organized attack on MB or a personal vendetta against Melody Lane and/or MB...but I suspect it, nonetheless. You had that one DEAD RIGHT, MrW! THAT WAS EXACTLY HER INTENT! She is here only to DEFEND AFFAIRS and assault those who are the greatest threat to the affair.
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So, thus far you have confessed to:
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IWRA
BlessedTIME
Sarie
Celt
Zippidy doo dah
Summersky [/color]
Some were male, some female, some taking on the persona of a WS, an OP, a BS. And some of those pretending to be repentant, yet still all of them PRO-affairs.
You spent a major part of the day yesterday trying to cover up your multiplicities, but it wasn't undetected <ML>.
And now once outted, you are "playing" a repentant con artist.
I have one question. WHY?
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I have one question. WHY? ~SOCIOPATHIC~ sociopath (soh-see-uh-path, soh-shee-uh-path) Someone whose social behavior is extremely abnormal. Sociopaths are interested only in their personal needs and desires, without concern for the effects of their behavior on others. Mrs. W
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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So, thus far you have confessed to:
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BlessedTIME
Sarie
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Summersky [/color] I have been attacked by every one of those except SummerSky. SS did try to launch an attack on Pepperband last Sunday by taking one of her comments from another thread over to the JustJilly thread. She was attempting to start a war on Pep's head but quickly ERASED that post when I came on and told her I KNEW it was IWRA. But, it was clear her goal was to go after Pepperband and to stir up yet ANOTHER uproar like she did with her ranting tirade thread about JustJilly. This is her MO. Under the SS alias, she tried to make the case to KatieMae that affairs should be left alone to just die a natural death. She expressed this view several times under BlessedTime and Sarie and thinks that our efforts to bust up affairs ARE MEAN and counterproductive. Just as she thinks exposure is mean. This is just one of her many AFFAIR SUPPORTING tactics she has employed here over the years.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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But, it was clear her goal was to go after Pepperband and to stir up yet ANOTHER uproar like she did with her ranting tirade thread about JustJilly. This is her MO. -emphasis mine OH YEAH MEL...You mean the tirade she started where she went in and edited her post to call Mr. W's words "venomous" AFTER he rejected her "very generous offer" to have the thread removed if he would only take his words back? A little board blackmail...Yeah, *I* remember that! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> Mrs. W
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This is so sad.
Many, if not all, of those bogus screen names and storys were supported by so many members here for YEARS. Members invested their valuable time and effort in trying to help these people who NEVER REALLY EXISTED.
I always felt BlessedTIME had an agenda, I knew every time I read her posts she was trying to undermine MB prinicples and the folks trying to implement them.
But what I didn't know was how vast and preverse her intentions were. Its shocking.
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This is a downright chilling post she made under Blessed Time to a new WH who had just arrived on the scene. Notice how she cleverly tries to give him cover from doing the right thing by telling him "you are just not there yet.": [this is a typical affair supporting tactic in many of her posts] "Since this is a marriage building site, most of us want to HAMMER into your head the importance of being truthful with yourself, your wife and everyone involved, and to stop your affair.
We want you to tell your wife so she can be in the loop and decide if she wants to stay married to you.
Wouldn't it be a 'hoot' if when you were off smooching with your OW, that she was off smooching with an OM of her own???
Ok, back to what I want to say to you.
If you were someone giving advice to a friend, wouldn't you tell them the same things we all are telling you?
The reality of this message board is nothing we can say will MAKE YOU DO THE RIGHT thing. Only YOU can make that decision.
It is kinda like when a person needs to stop drinking, smoking, taking drugs, lose weight or whatever the addiction is. Others successes and examples and encouragement HELP but the bottom line is that the person with the addiction, has to WANT TO STOP and make it their entire being commitment TO STOP.
It HAS to be the most important goal in their life.
You are not there.
But please don't stop posting here, even just to let us know you are still reading or to let us know your struggles You still need Help from MB friends.
I am glad you are not trying to deceive us.
We had a poster (probably more than one) that lied and said she had told her H, gave us the whole speech so we would be proud of her. (MRS X) However, she later confessed that she just wanted everyone off her back. I am sure it felt good even PRETENDING to do the right thing; the messages from others would be completely different and very encouraging.
However, it is just so wrong to SCAM not only loved ones but us who are total strangers, just trying to help a little! grrrrrrrrr." <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...rue#Post2689458
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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...and to think: I worried that my honest presense here would harm someone... I've fretted, worried, cried and prayed... ... and all the while... THIS. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
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...and to think: I worried that my honest presense here would harm someone... I've fretted, worried, cried and prayed... ... and all the while... THIS. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> S, You must know you're well loved, no? Jo
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NBII
You know I adore you don'cha !
I think MOST of the BAD discussions were instigated by a certain SNL-like persona a real snake in the grass
YOU are KEWL
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Yes, Pep. ((((Pep)))) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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... and there are still names NOT addressed .... still waiting...
wanna play poker NB and Jo ?
I'll deal
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Well, I am waiting for her/him to claim "justjilly" as another one of the aliases...
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