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I think I started a thread about two months ago, asking folks to identify all of their different nicknames. I think it was around the time Pio was playing with trying to find the most alarming screenname, but he was doing it all in spanish, so I didn't know what it was until he translated it for me. Wasn't it traica somethingorother? Anyway, I'll try to dig up that old thread and bring it up, so anyone and everyone can confess all of their identities.

I think this is also where the moderators outed pep and arkie!

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So...what's the chance that justjilly is this "jj" ...and jilly does rhyme with silly...dontcha know...


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If JustJilly is another aberation of BlessedTIME/Sarie/IWRA/SillySillyGirl/Celt etc., and MM and FH are spending all that time supporting her, how wrong and how frustrating is THAT!

Jen,

My quote used above is not an accusation. I am using the word "IF", questioning the theory or idea.

There is a BIG difference between accusing someone and questioning the possibilities.

Jo

ETA: Also, a point of order Jen. My response was directed to JustJilly. Which she has responded quite nicely all on her very own.

Thanks and no worries, JustJilly.

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JJ...

"Sybil's" intent was clearly to stir the pot and create more despair here...Certainly not a very noble goal...I think you may already know that Mr. W's words regarding you were in example format, and were not directed towards you...Your reading those words, if I am correct, were because of "Sybil's" emailing you the link, in an effort I can only presume to inflict hurt and cause discord...That is sick...

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Wait a minute.....Sarie is 60, and T&L (whom many people assume is my mother) is also 60.

Hmmmmmmmmm.

Mom W, are you 60, too? (You don't look 60.)


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I'm still trying to absorb this all. I went back and saw where IWRA and Blessed TIME posted on the same thread..

HERE

Blessed Time said her son-in-law died. IWRA said her Mom died. Just a week or so ago, IWRA said her Mom had her 87th birthday! She must have come back to life! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

Unreal 2B...And you know what else is strange...In that thread IWRA signs her post as Laura...In IWRA's early posts she signs as Mary...The one time that she emailed us she was someone called Rachel...Who knows...I'm calling her Sybil from now on...This is BIZARRE!

Mrs. W

Mrs. W,

She also signs as "Sarah".

And another thing that's peculiar, isn't Tom and Katie's baby named "Sarie" and MIA? LOL !

I know, I know, I'm going off on the deep end now. This is all so bizzaro and borderline psychopathic. Have to get humor somewhere.

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Resilient, I just went back on that "who's who" thread and found out that YOU were the one who outed Pep/Ark's multiple personality, LOL!!

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Resilient, I just went back on that "who's who" thread and found out that YOU were the one who outed Pep/Ark's multiple personality, LOL!!

Yeah, I think that was after Pep wrote some place that she was Ark and Ark was Pep.

But I don't believe it. Although, I don't doubt they share a brain. LOL

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Wait a minute.....Sarie is 60, and T&L (whom many people assume is my mother) is also 60.

Hmmmmmmmmm.

Mom W, are you 60, too? (You don't look 60.)


My mom's 60, does that count? Heck, I'm so honest NOW(see, I've earned my "F" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />) that I actually changed my age in my signature here ON my birthday...<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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Her connection with JustJilly was likely confined to using her to further her personal agenda. Her agenda is always PRO-AFFAIR and she used JJ's cause as baseball bat against those she hates here. Look at her sanctimonious screeds on her call out thread about JJ? She simply pimped JJ to garner some sympathy for WS's and to beat up those she dislikes, causing as much dissension as possible. That is her MO.

While she claims to "care" about JustJilly, she was passing around her personal emails. She has done to this others, I would add. I won't say WHO, but I have read emails from some of you other ladies who email with IWRA because she passes them around. [not to me, but to others]


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Mrs. Wondering,

Yes you are correct about the link. I knew where you and Mr. Wondering stood and I respect your honesty about where you stood. I have even more respect now because I see the value of living in your truth and I no longer choose to see the truth however it is dished out as anything other than the other person's truth.

I am choosing to see this sick behavior and no longer take it personally. It was a distraction from my new truth. If the end results was that it brought me to God by the help of MM and FH and LA (and even BK and Mr. W's comments to me to stay on topic and develop my faith in God) then I will choose to stay away from the work of Satan and choose to stay in the work with God. I hope this makes sense.

With respect,
Jilly


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I have company here and I can hardly take the time to post.

This post below by IWRA was a lie.
I will right any lies as they come out!
My mom is fine, what I wrote 2B about her birthday and the picture I sent, are true. My dad died though several years ago.

I was 'faking' it to give sympathy to Blessed Time.
Blessed time is a mixture of Sarie and Iwra and told
a LOT of lies distract from Sarie.
The post about my son in law dying suddenly and leaving
behind his girls and my daughter was true.

"Thank you for taking the time to start this thread, Julie.

I lost my Mom, my best friend, my life's greatest cheerleader, last July. (2004)

The song made me cry also. I hope it really is that way; that they are happy and walking streets of gold.

Thanks again, Laura "

I hope that you get the help you need, because this is truly sick and evil. To manufacture your own mother's death in order to pimp some sympathy is breathtaking in its level of deceit.


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I guess that I shouldn't be surprised that she would fake her mother's death to pimp some sympathy. This is a person who is so committed to deceiving others that she has been coming here for YEARS. She has deceived her H for YEARS about her affairs and who she really is. She has deceived the people in her private life for YEARS about who she really is, wanting them all to believe she is "nice." That is a serious commitment to DECEIT.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Wouldn't work very well for me to fake MY mother's death for sympathy, now would it? (Either of them.)

Don't listen to me. My mind is still boggling.


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Wouldn't work very well for me to fake MY mother's death for sympathy, now would it?

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> Not as long as I keep posting, but don't let THAT stop you! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> I could fake it for you, if you like. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Wouldn't work very well for me to fake MY mother's death for sympathy, now would it? (Either of them.)

You could try, but I bet I could take ya...You're far sweeter than me! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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Melody, what do you mean by this post?

"While she claims to "care" about JustJilly, she was passing around her personal emails. She has done to this others, I would add. I won't say WHO, but I have read emails from some of you other ladies who email with IWRA because she passes them around. [not to me, but to others]"

I have NEVER forwarded an email from 2BNormal or Cardsonly.
We have trusted one another with our real first names as well as family pictures. I trust them completely and although I used a lot of psuedo names on MB (I can best describe my deceitfulness as pretending to be a fiction writer and making up things) I would NOT betray them by forwarding their emails.

So what are you talking about?
Please go ahead and post what you are referring to.

The ONLY reason I forwarded Jilly's email is because she was treated so badly on MB. She deleted all her posts.
Her email to me made me think she was a nice lady that had made some mistakes. I wanted several on MB that I trusted to read what she wrote, I thought it would change their minds about her.

Jilly, I wrote and told you I was sorry and you said it was ok, there was nothing to forgive. I knew then that you were what you said you were, a forgiving person.

You know I didn't send to anyone (except 2B) or post your second email about what you said about MB...so you know I did keep your trust.

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IWRA, there is nothing trustworthy in your dealings with 2Bnormal and cards or anyone else, so please don't make me laugh. I have seen an email you forwarded from another lady on MB and I won't mention her name or post it here.


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I can best describe my deceitfulness as pretending to be a fiction writer and making up things


I think you're trying to minimize the impact your deceit had on the good folks that supported all your various stories and aliases, <place names here>.

In my opinion, it feels like a betrayal on several levels, especially when you add up several years of it and then throw in having one of your many aliases help defend another one of your aliases on contraversial subject matter.

Then theres the whole intentionally disguising yourself as another screen name solely to attack MB members when the original screen name you were initally using, on any given post, wasn't having the affect you were seeking.

I haven't even brought up the fact you touted being a BS, WS or OP while toggling between being male and female in tandem.

Good grief. Are you in denial? If your actions were so innocuous, then why the apology to Just Learning?

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