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I know there is at least one out there. I am desperate to talk to someone, no one understands why I am willing to hang in there and the hope that I have. Please help
M 2004
H had an A shortly after
False recovery until Aug 2006
H wants D
Learning and Plan A
Happiness doesn't come from having what you want, it comes from wanting what you have
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Welcome to MB. I am an American, but certainly you can get support here. What is your situation?
Moral of the Mayonnaise Jar: Do you want a full life? Or just sand? --------------------------------------------------------------- BS: Me: 33 WS: 32 Married 10 years Affair Started: May 06 Exposure: July 06 Daughter 4 years Son 2 years
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Wie Gehts?
I live in America but am of German descent. What can we do to help?
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I'm American but I lived in Germany when I was a kid.
Its a pretty universal thing about most people not understanding why a betrayed spouse would hold out hope. We have members all over the world, different nationalities, religous backgrounds and cultures...most post in English. It seems your English is fine.
We get it. Whats going on?
aka-confused42
BS-45 me
WH-42
DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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Servus!!!
I'm in Germany...............so if you need a ear, just go ahead.
I'm not a born German (I'm Canadian) but I've been here for over 30years and I'm VERY familiar with the mentality.
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Me-46yo + Husband-49yo
Met 1975/ Married 1980
H had 3 month affair/D-d January 2001
Grandparents since Dec.2005
Recovered and moving on and we're looking forward to the years ahead!
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BlondBlossom if you are ok with it would you please send me a PM? I need someone that understands this so badly it is not funny .
M 2004
H had an A shortly after
False recovery until Aug 2006
H wants D
Learning and Plan A
Happiness doesn't come from having what you want, it comes from wanting what you have
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Growthspurt - You will find that everyone here UNDERSTANDS your situation. We understand it because we have lived through it ourselves, despite what everyone and anyone else might have said.
You will NOT get the amount of support and advice from only ONE individual (and I know Blondblossom well from our conversations over the years) that you really might need, but from the broad base of folks of here on MB who you may find a wealth of knowledge based on the "school of hard knocks." You may even find those whose own situation was very similar to your own.
Regardless, blondblossom will do an excellent job for you in answering some of your questions.
Good luck!
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Just send me your email address............Private Message doesn't work for me.
bb
Me-46yo + Husband-49yo
Met 1975/ Married 1980
H had 3 month affair/D-d January 2001
Grandparents since Dec.2005
Recovered and moving on and we're looking forward to the years ahead!
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I have started my own thread <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> thank you please peek if you have time.
M 2004
H had an A shortly after
False recovery until Aug 2006
H wants D
Learning and Plan A
Happiness doesn't come from having what you want, it comes from wanting what you have
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I've taken a peek as you can see!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
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bb
Me-46yo + Husband-49yo
Met 1975/ Married 1980
H had 3 month affair/D-d January 2001
Grandparents since Dec.2005
Recovered and moving on and we're looking forward to the years ahead!
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