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wow, look at all those wayward wives. What has happened to women these days, nothing and no one can satisfy them, they are selfish beyond belief, have no morals, don't care about their children, are liars, "the W word", etc, etc, etc

ONLY to be reminded as if you had a brain *art...WAIT there are men on the other end of these affairs and some poor woman is saying the same exact things about men and unfortunately has probably not made it to MB yet?

It seems some of the treads run in cycles, more women having affairs then more men having affairs, etc but in the end it takes two to destroy families and lives...

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I had a poll on this very topic last week.....I too felt there were many more betrayed men on this board, but then I remembered just like you that there was a man on the other end of these affairs.

I just feel there are more MARRIED wayward women today. I think alot of single guys are hooking up with married women also.

Just an observation.

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It really comes and goes in waves.

I've been posting several years here now and sometimes it will SEEM almost exclusively one or the other..then for awhile it'll be more in balance..then swing the other way..and so on and so forth.

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My now ex WW was hooked up with a 51 yr old slime bucket thats never been married and has done this for years.

Even has a 18 yr old daughter he has never spent a day with....by the way.....quote..." it was her fault.....she should of had protection".

What a prince....eh?

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desperate houswives!!!!!!!!!!!
it started a trend worse than sex and the city and all the soaps......in my opinion
you see the pretty girls getting everything they want and it starts to sink in..the guys who watch it now see an opening too.
but guys in general tend to do this more imo..well the ones i know out 20 maybe 2 got morals so put that to out of 20 women id know 6 would have morals.but the slime guys are getting a more approachable response from women now so its an easier mark

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So if it takes two people to have an affair and there are more women having affairs than men, that can only mean one thing.

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BOREDOM?`

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I was simply looking at the mathematics - not the motivation.

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It's funny, but when I was single and in my mid-late 30's, I could go with my friends to a bar or club and they (my friends) would always leave with married women. They were the easiest targets. Give them a few drinks, a sympathetic ear and next thing you know they melted. Sad. This was the mid-late 90's.

Since I had been a BS in my first marriage, I had my own rules and standards that married women were off-limits.....period. It worked for me, but I've seen too many married people do the one-nighter far too often.....including my current WW.

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wow, look at all those wayward wives. What has happened to women these days, nothing and no one can satisfy them, they are selfish beyond belief, have no morals, don't care about their children, are liars, "the W word", etc, etc, etc

ONLY to be reminded as if you had a brain *art...WAIT there are men on the other end of these affairs and some poor woman is saying the same exact things about men and unfortunately has probably not made it to MB yet?


It reminds me of a 'question', old as the mankind, who cheats more, women or men?
Before, they would say - men. Now - it looks it's turning torward women.
The truth? The same as it was 1,000 years ago - both the same (presuming all the time the same - they do it with each other, 1:1. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />)


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...married women. They were the easiest targets. Give them a few drinks, a sympathetic ear and next thing you know they melted.

I can say exactly the same about married men.
No difference.

Actually, in many other things too, I see less and less differences <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />


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