August 16, 2006


Dear WGL,

In our meeting today, you advised me that if I had any other thoughts or concerns to let you know.

Another concern of mine is the history of violence that seems to follow VD. If you take the time to read the police reports that I have given you, you will find one report that you and I have discussed of when BF assaulted VD; you will find another report of when VD assaulted me; another report where VD's husband had assaulted her; and a final report where VD's husband and BF had gotten into an altercation at her house and VDH was arrested on a warrant for the assault on VD. VD's own criminal history show an arrest for assaulting a peace officer. This is a history of violence that my wife and I do not have in common with VD. This is a pattern that I feel that will continue in any relationship that VD has with anyone.

I hope that you will look past the he said/she said issues and only consider the hard facts that have been presented to you. I feel that if my children remain with VD that they will only become a product of their environment. I feel that the visitation as it stands now does not allow my wife and I to have enough influence in their lives to be able to overcome those negative influences.

All that I have done to gain custody has been for my children and for our family. At no time has any of this ever been done to break up BF and VD, or in an attempt to win VD back. I feel that it is quite obvious that if I wanted VD back I could have her. You have seen the text message that she sent me and heard the recordings of her saying that she put Leondra in school so that she could see me on a regular basis. I have made mistakes in the past that I will never make again. My hopes and dreams lie within my wife and my family. VD has no place in the plans that our family has set forth other than being the mother of two of my children.

I hope and pray that you will see the truth in all that has been presented to you and give my children the chance to grow and prosper and not become a statistic.

Thank you for your time.

Sincerely,



Wookster


[color:"purple"] It's a little more ... um ... emotional I think...but still...needed to be said imo. [/color]

I think it's just right. Who wouldn't be a bit emotional under the circumstances?

BTW - he ASKED that I post to you all.

Yeah.

He ASKED to be posted on MB.

(shaking head)

Wonder of wonders, eh?

Guess this "crap" (what he used to call the boards) actually DOES hold water...now that the mothership has removed the anal probe.

That's cool! You're last statement gave my a laugh!

I think it sounds great! I'd give the two of you the kids!

Wishing you and Wookie the best!