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Quite a few years ago a man posted a story of how his affair went down. I printed it out and kept it for a long time. I now have a need to give it to someone, as it was so informative. And I can't find it.

Does anyone remember it? It told of how it started, how it went, how he seemed almost detached.

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SR....if you can fill in more details....there's a possibility some of us may be able to help. Sadly....we've had many posts that would fit that description....but some specifics might help to narrow it down. Give an approx. date it was posted, the poster's name if you remember, some key words etc. and then maybe a search could be done that would turn it up.

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It was written by a man, it was called something like "Anatomy of my affair" or "story of my affair"

He told how his affair started, what he thought during it, how he actually compartmentalized it. How when he was done with the ow, he would be thinking of mowing the lawn, etc.

I would say it was before 2004. His name was: Husband, or something like that. It generated a ton of response from lots of members. He was the guy who was trying to safe his marriage and his wife wasn't sure. It was a great post. It made alot of sense.

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Bump. I desperately want this. I used to read it when I would get down. It was a really good explanation.

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Looking for old post from long ago


That would be Just Learning.

Oh. Sorry.

You asked for an old post.

Nevermind.

Try this one > [H]

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SR,

Not sure if this is what you're looking for, but the title of the threads and the time frame match up.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...part=1&vc=1

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...true#Post969120


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