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i was wondering if i had to go to court for the unpleasant divorce,can i name and supeana the other man so he is on file for the reason of the divorce?
also ive exposed is a follow up exposure a good thing ,i feel it will bring it to more light or was that i was supposed to do in the first place ?thanks all

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what does your attorney say?

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i havent got that far thank god yet.
but i would not go for an uncontested divorce cause i feel he must be held accountable for something.
im just tryin to learn all i can while were still holding off.i just wanted to know if anybody knew about this?

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it varies from state-to-state I think

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oh ok thank you ill have to research that thanks again

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has anybody had to expose to the same peole more then once for them to get involved more?

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Ask your attorney about deposing the OM. This is not the same as disposing - wouldn't that be nice? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

But to get to this you may have to file or counter file on the basis of adultery and have sufficient evidence to prove adultery - opportunity and predisposition.

If you don't go that route, and your wife ends up filing, you can probably answer the "charges" - your pleadings - including your understanding/claim of the affair and even name OM. This will get it all on the public record.

disclaimer: I am NOT an attorney. Do not act on this advice alone. Get real advice from a local attorney.

JMHO

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