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xzero needs your help in finding an old post of yours. Long and short of it, his WW wants to rebuild M after an A at work but doesn't want to change her job. I suggested to him to let her read your old post where that what started out quite innocently I believe for you, quickly turned almost out of control and was stopped by you in the nick of time. I believe that it demonstrates what we all believe to be true that No Contact means, NO CONTACT and that it is a setback to the recovery when that contact happens.
As I told him, I respect you as one of the more well grounded FWW around here and his WW could certainly use your perspective. Thanks in advance.
His post is something like Wife Cheated..and I am all alone.
O God, give us the serenity to accept what cannot be changed, courage to change what should be changed, and wisdom to distinguish the one from the other... Rienhold Niebuhr
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Hi Not, I think you may be thinking of Suzet.
Unfortunately, there was "no nick of time" about my A. It was an 18 month PA which ended in June 2003. I did leave my job because the OM was a client there (quite coincidental as it happens and nothing to do with the A) and there was always a risk he could come into the office.
I did stop recent contact in the nick of time, however.
Thank you for the kind words. Suzet would be great for him to talk to.
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