JM...

I was reading through my thread ...(sometimes you have to see where you've been ..to know where you're going!)

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There is so much dishonesty with your husband. It sickens me. You think TELLING him the truth will kill him? It won't,but dishonesty will damage him much more than the truth ever will.


I remember that stung at the time..and now..it seems like such a simple matter...

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All I am asking you to do is to be HONEST with
your husband. We want HONESTY first, only then
can healing begin


That seemed so foreign to me...but now I understand it completely..and you were so right..he was asking for complete honesty..simple, truthful, honesty.

I was wondering how you are doing? and how your "rebuilding" is going...

I remember you saying you're usually a "lurker"..guess I haven't PI**ED you off lately <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />


FWW- Me (44) BH (47) married 23 years EA/PA 02/05 - 07/06 in REAL recovery since 8/06