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WH has served me the D papers last week. I found out today that he's worshiping at another church with the OW! I assumed he's been worshiping solo but that was too good to be true. Anyways, I've exposed WH at his work and with his family, both which have been ineffective. Let's just say WH kept his job and his family doesn't want to get involved.
Should I expose WH at his "new" church? Is it too late?
I appreciate your thoughts.
Looking forward to a new chapter since D was finalized on 4/24/07 from WH.
"I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength." Philippians 4:13
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Yep,
Expose at the new church.
Unless it is the "Church of Like Whatever, Man" affairs are likely frowned on.
It is possible that they have intentionally sought out just such a church in their effort to legitimize their affair.
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Hi Noodle,
Thanks for your input. I figured I don't have much to lose at this point. It's a reputable church in our area.
What should I say to the pastor?
I'm getting sick to my stomach again. My WH has gone too wayward! How can WH worship God with an adultress beside him? Yuck!
Looking forward to a new chapter since D was finalized on 4/24/07 from WH.
"I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength." Philippians 4:13
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Hi Noodle,
Thanks for your input. I figured I don't have much to lose at this point. It's a reputable church in our area.
By reputable I assume you mean large? Easier to sneak in the back door that way. Speaking from personal experience...when a man and woman come to church together one of the FIRST questions they are asked is..."And your relationship is...?"
What should I say to the pastor?
"Hello Pastor So and So..my name is R2W and I am the wife of ***** who has been coming to your church recently. I wanted to make you aware that the woman he is coming to church with is his affair partner...her name is *******. I want to recover my marriage from this infidelity. What are you willing to do to help me?
I'm getting sick to my stomach again. My WH has gone too wayward! How can WH worship God with an adultress beside him? Yuck!
The short answer is that he can't.
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Hi Noodle,
It's a reputable church in that it has a large congregation and it is a part of a group of churches that are very conservative and WH's behavior would NOT be tolerated.
A wave of uneasiness has swept over me again. I want off this rollercoaster. I'm disgusted with WH.
Looking forward to a new chapter since D was finalized on 4/24/07 from WH.
"I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength." Philippians 4:13
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