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I've been in Plan B since mid-June. WH served me with D papers. I exposed WH at his work and to his family. I'm going to expose him to his new church.
What about confronting OW? OW is 22 yr. old and works with WH. Is this even worth it?
Looking forward to a new chapter since D was finalized on 4/24/07 from WH.
"I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength." Philippians 4:13
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Nope. Not worth it.
Expose to the grownups. She'll love the drama of confrontation and will likely not have any empathy or even ability to empathize with you. Not to mention that your position is strategically weak...OPs eat weakness for breakfast.
OWs and rattlesnakes...avoid.
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R2W,
I confronted OW. She is an idiot. Assume that the OW in your sitch is also. The OW in my case is in her late 40's, so age has nothing to do with it - stupid people simply get older like everyone else.
I find myself wondering how they do that - one would think that Darwin's theory would see them eliminated at a younger age........
Sorry, my sarcastic side shows through every now and then.
Don't bother with her. She is very young, and probably has no idea what she has done. At her age, the broader range of the impact of her actions probably just escapes her. It will probably strike her around the time she is 30. Then she will feel like an idiot, which we know her to be already.
SB
Lucky to be where I am, in a safe place to get marriage-related support.
Recovered.
Happy.
Most recent D-day Fall 2005
Our new marriage began that day. Not easily, but it did happen.
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