hello precious babies
everytime i read someone who's so fresh out of dday, i cry...
its like i am again re-living my discovery day... the worst day of my life...
i just want to tell you that you are not alone.. ow in my case was also our worker, who later on, trapped me and went her way up to become my friend... that is why, i was so in denial the first few weeks... i couldnt believe my h and JOke (ow) would do that to me... but they did...
i left my husband... after 2 weeks (and during those 2 weeks) he kept on begging me for a second chance... i agreed but with these rules to name:
END AFFAIR
NO CONTACT WITH OW
NO CONTACT WITH OC, FOR NOW
HONESTY
BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR TIME SPENT AWAY FROM EACHOTHER
i have said to him DIVORCE several times, i lost count...
but ask yourself.. and be honest... what is it that you really want???
can you picture yourself being happy without your h?
or youre just confused? (arent we all...)
look deep into yourself... as for me, eventhough my h lied to me for 3 years (yes we basically hve the same points) and betrayed me with an oc to remind me all our life.... i knew that if my h would change, i still love him...
there are ways to go around on ow getting laid off from your establishment...
and yes, dna testing is a must...
the baby may not be your h's... ( i pray that it isnt his)
get it all out
cry
tell family, friends
that way, you can help yourself...
everything you said that you felt.. it all happened to me.. everything.. but i got passed it..
it may not mean anything to you know, but you will get there...
we are here for you
if its not too much, we can email eachother...
feel free to vent to me...
hubby_cheated@yahoo.comi have so many things to share to you... which helped me in my path to self recovery and marriage rebuilding ...