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I post my story 1 week ago, a lot of people told me to get mentaly better and go to plan B. but yesterday he told me he want to move out he said it not going to be with op but to be alone. Do you believe him, he look sincere but he told me so much lie
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and you can add this to the list of other lies he's told.
Seperation is for one reason, and one reason only...so the affair partners can meet whenever they want, without interruption or answering to others.
Best wishes,
SD
BH - me 53, ONS 1979
FWW - 51, 2 EA's, 1 PA
Last D-Day, Sep. 30, 2003
Last Contact/recovery began 2-26-04
***You can do anything with time and money...but remember...money won't buy you time!***
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nohe look sincere but he told me so much lie
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also the house is moving it a house that we were renting and it about 5 houses down from the op. because of that Im afraid he will be so easy foe her to go see him. I try to convice to stay and again try to cut the bridge with her he want to do it anyway. But he said he got pressure when he get home to be happy and loving and he want to be alone. He sais he still got some love for me but it is missing something he said he doesn't know what but that why is got to find out. I am very lost we din't tell the kid yet, I am so afraid I never been alone by myself and it is pretty scary. I don't know if I should help him with the move ?? I don't know where to turn around?? I can I survive?
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I don't know if I should help him with the move ?? No, don't help him abandon you. Pep
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Pep your so right he is abondoning me and the kids and he ask me if I can'nt cry went he will say that to the kid because it will be worst for the kids. What do you think about the pressure I am supposely give him and that why he need to be by himself to found out what he want.
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He wants you to not cry because the kids will see how sad you are ... is this correct?
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Should I try to make is mind change, he think it the good way to go because the therapist propose that. But I told him what the problem is it the triangle with the op and if he would make the effort to cut all communication with her maybe he will se better after and we can concentrate on us and find back the love he lost for me.
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no it not is just going to make him fell better because he know the pain he is doing even is 10 years son told me the other day, dad does'nt always say the truth, I told him that and he was hurt but that the reality and he says he want to change that he doesn' want say any lie, he won't have to because he will be out of the house and free
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In your country, do women have rights to property of the marriage?
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