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Nostalgic...
#1740788 09/01/06 09:58 PM
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My husband and I are divorcing, 5 years after his A. I thought we had recovered, but apparently not. Reading about these couples with affairs makes me think longingly of the days after his affair, when he was repentant and I thought we could work it out. Not like these days when he flat out tells me that he doesn't love me anymore. I can't believe I am wishing to be back in a time that at the time I thought was the darkest period of my life. Now everything has a door-slamming finality to it--it's over.

I guess I'm just having an evening of woe-is-me.

Married 19 years Twin DSes - 14 H 1st PA '98 - ONS H 2nd PA jan.'01 to june'01 D-day 6/13/01 H 3rd PA 2005 - 2006 Divorced 2/6/07
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Rose Red #1740789 09/01/06 10:01 PM
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Rose Red,
I'm so sorry for this turn of events.

What happened? Another A? Contact with OW?

Weekends are kind of slow, especially with this being a holiday weekend.

Folks will lend support. Keep posting.
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life2short #1740790 09/03/06 02:42 AM
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I was thinking about you just the other day. Was wondering how you were and if you still lived where you did a few years ago. I was thinking that you probably didn't live that far from me.
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Rose Red #1740791 09/03/06 05:59 AM
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Rose,

I am sorry to hear he is babbling again. Was he attacked by the mothership again? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

This time, there's no need for plan A improvements right? If he is a WS and babbling as such, you know what to do.

I am sorry he can't be an H for you. It w/b his loss greater than yours. Losing one's family and having it replaced by being a babbling bumbling WS, isn't pretty nor happy.

You can move forward and in time, learn to be happy.

Please let us know how we can help.

Pull out Surviving an Affair and if you need Love must be tough books. They may serve as resfreshering support for you.

take care,
L.

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