Well, we arent technically divorced, but we are separated, and the "child schedule" issues are the same for both situations, so I figure this forum is the best area for this question... (?)


We've been going 50/50 split for the summer. She now wants it to be all weeknights at her mothers' house, for school.

My wife claims that this is "critical for their stability in a learning environment at preschool"
(they're turning 5, but late 5, so one more year of preschool before kindergarden)

Anyone hear of this before?
Any thoughts/evidence to the contrary?

ME: H, 35, married 9 years. 3 young sons W:32, series of online "friendships" 1st D-day: some time 2004 (online EA) OM broke off, NC june 2005, but no recovery plan 2nd D-day: june 20th, 2006("ILY" to "friend"). W moved out next day. Oct 2006, starts being around a 3rd guy instead. Mar 2007, stopped? Current status: Separated. W filed D. in July 2006, served Dec 11th, my response filed Jan 8th Most recent thread