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Karanba - Hi! I am sorry you are going through this. Most here know your despair.

The weekends are slow, so the replies will come slowly until monday.

First - explore this site. Read the material given freely to you on the site. It is the best thing to read. Next - get Surviving an Affair by Dr. Harley.

You will get a lot of good advice here.

Most will tell you to stay away from psychics. For that kind of money you can get HOURS of counseling from Steve Harley, who is in business to save marriages. The psychic is likely not trained in saving marriages. Don't expect most here to be supportive of helps from psychics.

Start studying the website. Pray hard.

You have a good chance to recover your marriage.

foundareason

foundareason,

Thank you for your advice. I wanted somebody to tell me not to trust the psychic, because I knew it was wrong choice but I could not stop thinking about the psychic.
After getting your advice, I bought Surviving an Affair and read the book several times. I also read through this HP to find out what I can do for saving our marriage.

Now I got so depressed after studying, because I did everything opposit that I should avoid to survive an affair....I could not avoid angry out bursts, disrespect, and demands. My WH and I fought many times already.
We are not together since June and have not enough time to spend together. I tried to see WH at least once a week and to talk to him on the phone as much as possible. But nothing works so far, and I can say the situation is getting worse.

WH is still contacting OW many times on the phone and I guess that they see each other often. WH and OW are free to see each other, nothing disturbs their passion and fantasy. I do not know where WH lives and phone is the only way to contact him, means if WH does not want to talk to me, he just ignores. Recently, it is very difficult to contact WH. He never answers my call.

Do you think I still have a hope? Is it too late to start Plan A/Plan B?

There is always hope if you avoid psycics. FAR is right. The MB program works if you follow it. Read Longhorns thread pinned at the top of this board and please post on GQII - the busiest board on this site.

Welcome to Marriage Builders.

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bigkahuna,

Thank you for your advice. I will study more and will post to GQII whenever I am ready.

rdmd3,

Unfortuately, I am not the one you know. However, if you know exactly same case with me, please shere your opinion/experience from the situation. I really appreciate your advice....

read my posting in GQII