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C29:
Now WHY did you do that?
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Hmmmm.
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tired, your husbands problem is most likely the porn. He sees it and views it and it arouses him. He sits with it all day long...gnawing at his brain, feeding his desire. It then comes home with him, and there you are. He's been aroused all day.... I would suspect that is why he is groping you so much. Tired... I feel for your situation. My STBXH was the same way. Just watch your kids... any girls by chance? I hate to suggest such a thing, but it happened to me, and it has happened to others here. Sexual addiction and porn are evils that will grab his mind and do aweful things to your family. Hoping your kids are ok.
lamby
Me...44yr old F; Divorced Feb. 2008
2 boys, 15 and 13
3 girls, 7,9,and 11
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Tired:
Sorry that you find yourself needing this site but you will find lots of good advice.
I think that your husband will have a lot of growing up to do before you can have a good marriage, but it is possible.
IMHO, you need to set the bar high. Let him know what type of behavior is acceptable, i.e. your requirements for no porn, affection, foreplay, etc.
Let him know that you will do plenty to make him a happy husband, but you need to be on the receiving end of his effort as well.
Best wishes,
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