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#1744998 09/08/06 05:56 PM
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I really could use some advice on this one. My Wife is begging me to have a new baby, we have 3 children 10g, 9b, and 4b. The first 2 are from a prievious marraiage. She feels rejected, and insecure because I won't agree to have another baby. We are extremley tight on the money now, not making our credit card payments, her last pregnancy she had to quit her job because she was unable to work due to sickness. I feel as though she will leave me though if I don't agree. This is causing serious problems between us. Prior to this we have been able to work thru anything. We Love each other very much, but she feels as though she loves me more. Please help me!

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Have you both sat down and made a budget and see where the $$ is going to show her that at this time a new baby will put additional stress on the family. Does she work at all. If not, maybe she could help out at the school or do some parttime work or go to school parttime.

I don't believe that she will leave you for not wanting another baby. Have you two thought about counseling...for there is counseling for those tight on $$.

Good LUck....Blessings.


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