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I just heard a voice mail on my husband's phone. He was in the shower and his phone beeped so I looked at it. The little icon for a voice mail was flashing so I listened! It was one of the women who works in the shop where he works. She said she would see him tomorrow and I know he doesn't have any plans. This is not the first time I have suspected he is having an affair with a woman and I can't stand it anymore. What should I say to him? Please help!
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Say nothing and follow him tomorrow! Find out what he is doing all on your own.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Also. go online and check his cell phone records. See if this is a number he has called a lot.
And like Mel said, follow him.
THe hey is to gather all the info you can BEFORE you confront--because even with the info they will deny, deny, deny and twist things to make you think you;re crazy. That is why you need the proof first.
Any more to the story you'd like to share so we might be able to give you some more input? What other signs have you seen?
Intexas
BW-me, 29
XH, 29
3 sons-now 6,4,2
Divorce final--Sept. 27, 2006.
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Breathe, find a support person and make a plan....for starters.....make a plan for tomorrow. Do as suggested in the 2 posts above. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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