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Hi All, I've been out of this website for couple of years due to one of the member become so controling on what should I do and what will I do?

Anyway its been a while I haven't post, But now I am back in a different name:

My question is: I am still feeling ups and downs and its been 3 yrs past... [color:"black"] [/color]

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What is your story, BreakThrough? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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Me, BS 37 Him, WXH (Noddy) 40 DD13, DD6 Married 14th August 1993 D/Day 2nd April 05 Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28 Divorce final 6th July '06. Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx ...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Do you have anyone to talk to, outside of this board?
The experience leaves some deep and permament scars, I am sure, and the outlook on life changes.

Recently, I attended a group meeting, just a few people, talking about their unfaithful spouses, which gave me a bit of a lift. That's a good thing to try. It won't really change the after-effects of getting cheated on, but it does give a boost to the spirit.


time to change the crazy one-sided no-fault divorce laws - ideas/opinions welcome
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My Story:

I love my past. I love my present. I'm not ashamed of what I've had, and I'm not sad because I have it no longer.

+= = WWS had affair then I have confront them both and reveal the secret we separated and the OM left her, I was working everything to get us back together but she had another affair to the new OM which is I confront the 2nd OM and said I am giving you my blessing. I was in deep pain for a while, its been 3 yrs ago and now I am feeling little better than before. But I feel like I dont even trust no Woman anymore.

Make story short there is still time that tears in my eyes still there. I think when I asked GOD to shows me what is love? and I guess the response is as long as there is tears in my eyes there is always love....

I guess you can't be brave if only wonderful things happened.

and I would rather be able to appreciate things I can not have than to have things I am not able to appreciate.


Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some people move our souls to dance.
They awaken us to new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom.
Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon.
They stay in our lives for awhile, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never ever the same.


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