WH has filed for D and I responded to his petition. He sent me an e-mail wanting to stop by and pick up the rest of the belongings he left behind when he so quickly moved out at the end of April. He left behind his important docs, lots of books and CDs, some clothing, family photos, and all of the love letters I wrote him. My question is- should I be home to meet him? I've changed the locks and I know I'll be extremely emotional if I do see him. I haven't seen him since June 13th. On the other hand, I'd like to see him and give him a huge hug and remind him of all the things he loved about me. My heart tells me that seeing him is going to be self-destructive. Maybe I should leave his belongings on the porch or have a third party take care of the exchange. What should I do with the love letters? I'm extremely torn.

Suggestions are greatly appreciated. I'm very confused as to what is best for my own emotional well being.