Today I approached WW on how come she has involved our 16 & 17 yr old daughters. She has air out all the dirty laundry to them, all the lies and her new man or men as well.

After I made a comment via text messaging, i was working in my home office and she walked into the house, which she left over three months ago. Cursing and looking for me got in my face about harrassment, because I was asking her questions.

She went nuts and started throwing punches at me, jumping up and down and thrashing at me. She finally left and came back with my children, my daughters never said anything to me., my son was fine and excited to see me. I asked her what did she say to them. She said none of your business. So I was like ok.

Then my one daughter said thank god we are going to our new apartment. I asked her again away from the children, I said you will do anything to [email]f@$#%[/email] me with the children to get them on your side. Thats what ****** do. She got out of her can and went into my car and said to my son, What do you think of dad calling me a ******?

Yes what I said was a huge LB but she did not have to involve the children.

I am crushed..............


HELP

never,

A much bigger LB would be in not making out a police report regarding the battery on your person by your wife.

Do it now!

I immediately filed a police report. I have two because I do know know what she is capable of next.

She always said how happy she was that I had an awesome relationship with my daughters, I adopted them in 2002, they are from her first marriage.......

She now has destroyed everything I have done to show them that you do not need to be "blood" to love like a mother and father do to a child.

At 17 ans 16 she has become there friends, ie: confiding in what goes on in her life, picking the up when that have been drinking. Who knows what else........


I have this all in my pocket and have told her that she is a discrace of a mother lately. The most hurtful thing is the fact that she was a great mother.

Oh, NGU...she hasn't destroyed anything...your daughters know they are loved by you...that you are THEIR father...and NOTHING she can do or say will ever change that...

Take it from an adopted daughter.

Trust in your love and being loved, NGU.

I'm proud of you for the police report...being authentic and staying in reality is YOUR choice...even when it isn't hers.

Great self-care.

And that's what I'm posting here...stay in the reality that your relationship with your DDs are your very own...cannot be destroyed by anyone...affected...not destroyed...and your DDs know this.

LA