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i have it typed up and sitting on my pc. all i have to do is hit send.
OW is still trying to txt FWH...as recently now as today!!
FWH has not responded since the calls on 9/10 (sorry thats on another thread).
We cant block her #, tried and our cell company cant do.
i want to threaten to expose at her office b/c i didnt do before...just want to say stop or i will send your manager all the cell phone records i have....this is dumb though, right?? i am sitting on my hands here!!!!
Me 37, H 38
Dated 5 yrs, M 5/2002
15 yo DD
DDay 1 - 9/2002 OW 20 yo relative of H's friend
DDay 2 - 6/5/06- met OW on 2 week business trip, knew for one week - wanted D. A continued via phone/txt through 9/2006
NC Since 10/2006
DDay 3 - 8/2/08 - OW#1 has slithered back into the picture
Plan D
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Forewarned is forearmed
If you intend to follow through with the threat why not just do it. A threat will not stop her and she'll just look for other means to make contact. Exact the consequences upon her...that is the only thing these stalking OP's seem to understand. When it hurts them they finally get the hint that it's just not worth it.
Mr. Wondering
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered
"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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Mr W - always good advice...so just send the cell phone records to the manager...along with a letter explaining the sitch to them? problem is i dont know OW name...but i suppose it is enough to tell them what happened and when and they can put 2 and 2 together...
Me 37, H 38
Dated 5 yrs, M 5/2002
15 yo DD
DDay 1 - 9/2002 OW 20 yo relative of H's friend
DDay 2 - 6/5/06- met OW on 2 week business trip, knew for one week - wanted D. A continued via phone/txt through 9/2006
NC Since 10/2006
DDay 3 - 8/2/08 - OW#1 has slithered back into the picture
Plan D
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Why is that a problem? Just ask H for it. He's trying to make a mends? To repent? To be honest?
Of course, this is just my thinking...then expose!
A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge.
Thomas Carlyle
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Also, you will need to change all #'s that she has.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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