My husband and i have been married for nearly 5yrs. We have known each other since we were children. We dated other people in our teens, and then finally got together. Recently we have moved and started a new life, new jobs. We have been having heated arguments for the last 2months where he loses the plot and ends up screaming abuse at me. There is no threat of physical violence, but he says things that i would never say to him. I try to resolve by talking with him, but it usually makes things worse, i end up in tears and he says i use the crying to manipulate him.Now he is saying that he is sick of me and doesnt love me anymore and will not resolve anything. He recently told me that he wants a divorce and asked when i was going to leave.
I have run out of ideas about resolving this beacuse he says that he wont and that he is serious about notloving me and wanting a divorce. We are both still young and i do love him very much. I feel like he has broken our promises that we made when we got married. He doesnt seem to care.

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