I'm really baffled as to why people feel they have to lie. My SO has lied on a few occassions (probably more, but I didn't catch him). He says these lies were just misleading information.<P>If you read my thread entitled "Glutton for Punishment" I was upset that I called and he didn't answer his phone and the answering machine wasn't on. <P>I was very upset and angry and vowed I was moving on. Well, he kept calling me at work (I didn't answer, left the answering machine on) and he finally left a message that he didn't know why I was avoiding him and that he had gone to the ER with severe stomach cramps and he wasn't sure why the answering machine didn't pick up. He said he had tried calling me right back after I did talk to him and he said he'd call back, but he said he left a message on my machine when I didn't answer. I didn't get a message so he said he must have gotten a wrong number.<P>I felt badly that he had to go to the hospital and we got together to run and I was concerned for his health. I finally called the hospital to put my fears to rest and they didn't have him registered and that meant he wasn't there. I asked him if I could see his discharge paperwork and he said he'd give them to me, but they were at work with the lady who handles their medical bills. He said he didn't know why the hospital didn't have him on their computer.<P>He told me yesterday that he has the paperwork for me, but I haven't seen him yet to see it.<P>I have a feeling he will finally confess that he lied. Why would he lie? He could have told me he didn't feel like talking and we could have each hung up and gone to sleep without the suspicions and heart ache. How do I know if he was talking to someone on the other line and not answering or if he just turned the ringer/answering machine off?<P>Some of his lies were really nothing to get upset about, so I don't know why he'd lie. I just don't understand it.<P>God Bless.<P>------------------<BR>Carpe Diem<BR>~~ Lady K ~~<P><BR>