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I am here!
Orchid #1755072 10/11/06 08:10 AM
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So sorry! i have been really really sick with the flu and out of work for 2 days...back now. thank you for your concern.

WELL --- He did it. Number changed, letter written and mailed. I can't believe it, literally. I still feel very leery right now, i don't trust him.
Need to install keylogger but our PC has some virus that we are attempting to get rid of.
Is it normal that this still doesn't make me feel ok? Maybe it needs more time to sink in, i don't know.

Last edited by MPELE; 10/11/06 09:31 AM.
Me 37, H 38
Dated 5 yrs, M 5/2002
15 yo DD
DDay 1 - 9/2002 OW 20 yo relative of H's friend
DDay 2 - 6/5/06- met OW on 2 week business trip, knew for one week - wanted D. A continued via phone/txt through 9/2006
NC Since 10/2006
DDay 3 - 8/2/08 - OW#1 has slithered back into the picture
Plan D
Re: I am here!
MPELE #1755073 10/11/06 09:50 AM
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MP...OUR SHINING STAR asks:

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Is it normal that this still doesn't make me feel ok? Maybe it needs more time to sink in, i don't know.


If you are talking about the first days/weeks of Recovery, it was certainly a nerve-wracking, scary time for me...

He will need to do much more WORK to win back your TRUST.

Complete openness and honesty about everything in his life is ESSENTIAL.

Hang in there, MPELE.

You already know how difficult this is all is...

Sorry to hear about your physical illness on top of your emotional pain...

HUGS TO YA.....

I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
Re: I am here!
mimi_here #1755074 10/11/06 11:20 AM
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MPELE,

Congrats and wishing you continued strength.

Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle

You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
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