Me BH 36, WW 33, DS5, DD2 dday 5-8-06 - in plan A since mid to late May
My WW had an EA for about 8-9 months with a co-worker. WW has now changed jobs and has had NC since 8-4-06. We are working on our M and just taking it day to day, nothing too deep just yet. The problem we are having is with OM's wife. I know she knows about the EA because I had lunch with her and she told me her WH had told her about it. She asked me how I was holding up and such and I asked her the same. She said that she was hurt and scared, but that they would make it. Well she is psycho now!!!. My wife and I sign up our son to a after school class (there are 19 classes to choose from) where you just sign your name and day to a board in the classroom. Everyone can see the names. So OM's wife picks the same class as us. Now OM's W just sits and watches my wife all hour and sometimes she brings the OM (stupid woman). My wife changed days and now I hear from the head of the classes that OMW wants to change classes also. OM's W drives by our home and I have busted her a few times. Now OM's wife is calling my wife's cell using the OM phone trying to get my wife to call back the OM. She does this to try to bust her H, OMW is still every angry I think. I can understand OMW being hurt and angry at my wife, but it has been 5 months now. Shouldn't she be working on her M and leave us alone. My wife told me that she would talk to OMW if OMW wanted to. This would be a one time only thing, but now that offer is off the table. Has anyone else had to deal with this? I have enough on my plate with my M and the EA thing and I don't need OMW playing these games.
thanks
M2L
