I am about 60 yrs old. I have been married for over 26 years. I have no bio children and one step daughter I adopted as an adult on the advice of my attorney to save her taxes in inhertance. That was a mistake. My wife has let her come between us and I feel I am 2nd to her daughter. Her daughter is very self centered and I resent her meddling in our marriage. My wife went to her every time we had a fight and I told her not to. I am thinking about getting a divorce. My stepdaughter told me point blank (via e-mnail) that she had every right to critize my behavior. My wife is my 3rd wife and I know what I would face and I have no thoughts about getting maried again. Another thing my wife has been having deep dpression for the past 3 years and it has been very difficult living with her, her negative thoughts, very little sex, constant nagging. She became suicidal on Prozac. It is about 4 am and another sleepless night. I have voiced my feelings ad nauseam to her. Any suggestions out there. I am very angry at her daughter using her (her daughter makes $150,000.00 a year) and expects her mother to come up to Alaska whenever she wants her help caring for her 3 children and expects her to pay her own airfare. We are both retired and on fixed income. My wife does this 2-3 times a year. I resent it. Any sugestions out there? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

Anybody out there have any thoughts about this????