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#1761331 10/25/06 12:51 AM
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Well, I have done everything right, counceling, everything, but he chose not to try, I found out he gave OW directions to our home, he said he would meet her down the road, don't know if he has or not, but as I'm typing, he is outside working. I know in my heart, it is truly over. I can't and wont accept this anymore, I deserve to be treated with respect and have someone who cares about me, not someone who only cares about how many women he can get. He will know soon that this is it, but it will be after the holidays. OW H sent me the email that he sent to her in detail how to get here and what to do if I was outside. I'm strong and I will make it, I done my investigating and had other people looking out for me, soon it's going to hit him where it hurts.

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You have the option to do the following:

1. Call the police and let them know a female is has been sent to stalk your home and that you are afraid. Let them know you received an e-mail for OW's H and this soap opera is way out of control. You would like to request help but realize no law has been broken YET but want to alert law enforcement in case something does happen.

What would she come there for anyway? If you can stomache it I would step back and see how far she would dare to trespass on your territory. Let the police know you need civil standby and will call when it happens. Let your neighbors be on alert . It might sound extreme but so is the A and more so that your H is stupid enough to make such plans.

2. Go to plan B. What is OW's H doing?

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Last edited by Orchid; 10/25/06 01:09 AM.

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